The Intentional Divorce Library
Divorce comes with more financial questions than anyone expects. This is where you'll find real answers on asset division, budgeting, retirement, and the mistakes that quietly cost women the most, written by a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who has helped clients navigate exactly what you're facing now.
No fluff, no fear tactics. Just the information you need to make clear-eyed decisions and protect the life you're building next.
Not sure where to start?
Every article here is written for a particular moment. Start with the stage that matches where you are, and you will find the handful of pieces that actually apply to you.
- I am considering divorce. Can I afford it, what happens to the house, what should I know before talking to an attorney.
- I am preparing for divorce. Documents, credit, insurance, retirement accounts, and choosing your professional team.
- I am going through divorce. The house, support, dividing retirement, QDROs, taxes, and evaluating a settlement.
- My divorce is final. Retitling assets, confirming the QDRO, beneficiaries, rebuilding cash flow and credit.
Browsing by topic instead? Every category is listed in the sidebar, from QDROs and the family home to co-parenting and life after divorce.
"Who gets the house?" is one of the first questions that comes up when couples start talking about divorce. In my more than 20 years as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, I have heard it thousands of times, and the honest answer is always the same: it depends.
The family home is not like other a...
This is one of the questions I get most often. Every single day, someone reaches out asking some version of: what happens with Social Security after my divorce?
If you were married for at least ten years, you may be entitled to collect Social Security benefits based on your ex-spouse's work record....
Is there an Ohio alimony calculator? No. Ohio has no statutory formula, chart, or calculator for spousal support. Under Ohio Revised Code 3105.18, a judge weighs 14 factors, including income, earning ability, length of marriage, and standard of living, and decides whether to award support, how much,...
Dealing with a divorce is stressful enough. Add complicated financial decisions to the mix and it can feel completely overwhelming.
That is where a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst comes in.
If you have been wondering what a CDFA actually does, whether you need one, and how they are different fro...
Divorce is one of the hardest transitions you will go through, and in the middle of all that emotional weight, you are also being asked to make financial decisions that will follow you for decades. That is a lot to carry at once.
If your marriage involved a 401k, whether it is yours or your spouse's...
Ohio calculates child support using an income shares model: both parents' gross incomes are combined, a base support obligation is read from the state schedule, and each parent is responsible for their proportionate share. The schedule covers combined incomes from $8,400 to $336,000, the minimum ord...
By the time someone asks me about a QDRO, they are usually already overwhelmed.
They are trying to understand attorneys, financial disclosures, settlement options, retirement accounts, taxes, and all kinds of paperwork they never expected to be dealing with.
So when the term QDRO comes up, the respo...
Are you losing thousands of dollars due to the financial fears that arise during the process of dissolution or divorce? The cost of the divorce itself is undeniably one of the biggest concerns clients express. There is no question about it. The duration and expenses involved in divorce proceedings u...
